Now we must take the next step and see what ethical consequences follow from these ontological premises. In the three subsequent chapters, we will attempt to rethink the fundamental dimensions of human being-with-others - the phenomena of otherness, responsibility, communication - in light of the ideas developed earlier. This will allow us to lay the foundations for a new ethical perspective, more attentive to the processuality and relationality of being.
1. The Other and the Guest
If we accept the ideas of existential freedom and compositional infinity, if we think of subjectivity not as a frozen substance, but as a process of constant self-determination, then the Other also appears not simply as an alternative version of myself, but as a radical otherness that eludes any attempt at categorization and appropriation. The absolute I, capable of containing the Other within itself, turns out to be an illusion. The encounter with the Other is always an event that interrupts the usual course of things, that calls into question established patterns of meaning-making.
This radical otherness of the Other finds its expression in the figure of the Guest. And the Guest here is not simply one who empirically arrives in another's home, but a fundamental ontological mode of our being-in-the-world. After all, if we think about it, we are all always already "thrown" into a world that precedes and exceeds us. In which we are all temporary. We find ourselves in the element of language, culture, social relations, which were not instituted by us and which set the horizon of our understanding. In this sense, to be human means to be a "guest," to be initially involved in something foreign, external, not coincident with oneself.
And here we encounter a paradox: it is precisely by recognizing and affirming our "unrootedness," our initial "guestness" in the world, that we gain the possibility of a genuine relationship to the Other. For as long as we think of ourselves as the "masters" of being, as sovereign subjects, we cannot help but reduce the Other to our expectations and projections. Only by realizing our own otherness, our "not-being-at-home," can we open ourselves to the radical otherness of the Other, enter into a genuine Dialogue with him.
To accept the Other as Guest means to allow him to be Other in all his unpredictability and irreducibility. It means giving him the right to enter our world without demanding that he renounce his own world. Genuine hospitality is a gift that does not expect a reciprocal gift, an effort of acceptance that does not demand assimilation.
It is important to emphasize that such hospitality is by no means passivity and self-denial. It is not a willless dissolution in the Other, but a co-creative effort to create a common space. To be hospitable means not simply to "let" the other into one's territory, but to actively build relationships in which otherness is not erased, but becomes a resource for mutual growth and transformation.
In light of the processual ontology developed earlier, a hospitable attitude toward the Other appears as a paradigmatic example of that "play" of differences, thanks to which reality remains in constant becoming. The encounter between "Guest" and "Host" is always an event of mutual positing and transformation, giving birth to new worlds and meanings. It is in this dynamic "between," in the very "gap" of non-coincidence between I and Other, that the truth of being as difference is articulated.
Thus, the ontology of the Other and the Guest opens up new perspectives for understanding the ethical dimension of human existence. The imperative here is not the subjection of the Other to some universally valid Law, but the hospitable acceptance of his otherness, participation in the complex dynamics of differences. The ethical challenge facing us is to cultivate openness to the event of encounter, to assert the primacy of relationship over substance, of process over result.
It is this shift from an "ontology of the existent" to an "ontology of relations" that will define the further course of our inquiry. In the following chapters, we will attempt to show how the idea of hospitality to the Other is refracted in specific dimensions of human existence - in the phenomena of responsibility, communication, in the very "matter" of sociality. This path will lead us, ultimately, to a new understanding of ethics - a processual ethics of participation and co-creation.
2. Responsibility
Existential freedom, understood as a fundamental condition of human existence, is inseparable from primordial responsibility. Since we are always already involved in the world, since our being is being-in-relations - we cannot evade responsibility for the form of these relations, for the direction of the processes unfolding through us.
To clarify the nature of this responsibility, it is necessary to recall two key concepts developed earlier - existential freedom and necessary effort. Freedom here is understood as the possibility of self-determination in the face of the facticity of the world, as the ability to initiate new dimensions of meaning. But this freedom is inextricably linked to necessary effort - the effort of self-realization that we are always already making by virtue of our involvement in the processes of reality.
Responsibility is the flip side of existential freedom, its necessary correlative. We are responsible insofar as we are free - insofar as we have the ability to begin something new and unpredictable. Responsibility is a kind of authorial signature, a sign of our participation in the co-creation of being.
Imagine a dancer performing an improvisation. Each of his movements is an expression of his existential freedom - the ability to introduce unprecedented configurations into the space of dance. But this freedom is inseparable from responsibility for the overall pattern of the dance, for the conjunctions and contrasts that arise between the elements. To dance means to freely respond to the call of the plastic element and to take responsibility for the transformations produced.
To be free and responsible means to consciously take on the effort of co-creation, to transform the blind givenness of our involvement into a meaningful project aimed at enriching the process of joint creation of reality. Responsibility turns out to be the highest mode of human freedom - freedom as participation, as a response to the call of being.
Unlike traditional models, where responsibility is thought of as subordination to an external ought, limiting the freedom of the individual, processual ontology understands it as an immanent dimension of our very existence, flowing from the fact of our initial involvement in the dynamics of the world.
We are responsible not because we must follow some predetermined law, but because our very mode of being is already an action that entails certain effects. Each of our gestures, each choice participates in the becoming of the world. We are responsible for our very presence, for the way we enter into the unfolding being and participate in its self-transcendence.
In this light, responsibility appears not only as an ethical, but also as an ontological phenomenon. It turns out to be the force that connects us with the world and with others at the deepest level, thanks to which we acquire our singularity in living conjunction with the other.
3. Communication
The phenomenon of communication acquires special significance in the context of the ontology we are developing. If reality is understood as a process, as a play of differences and relations - then communication appears not simply as an external exchange of messages between subjects, but as the very space of the unfolding of meaning, the very condition of our being-in-the-world.
At the basis of our understanding of communication lies the semiotic approach, which considers any interaction as an exchange of signs. The sign here is treated as a unity of the signifier (material form) and the signified (conceptual content), and its meaning is not thought of as something pregiven and unambiguous. Rather, it is produced anew each time in the event of interpretation, through the collision and resonance of different perspectives and contexts.
However, the production of meaning is not an arbitrary process. It is always mediated by the compositional infinities that enter into communicative interaction. On the one hand, these are the participants in the dialogue themselves - always excessive in relation to any actual identity and role, always permitting a multiplicity of readings and responses. On the other hand, these are the concepts and notions that language operates with.
Each concept, each element of our conceptual repertoire is not a frozen essence, but an open set of virtual meanings, references, connotations. It is a compositional infinity, unfolding and transforming depending on the context of its use. And it is precisely because two consciousnesses, two conceptual schemes cannot be completely identical that communication always requires the work of translation and co-attunement.
Even if the interlocutors speak the same language, they inevitably invest words with slightly different meanings, resonating with their unique experience and worldview. Therefore, there is always a gap, a gap between non-coincident perspectives, in the dialogue.
However, this gap is not an obstacle, but a condition for the productivity of communication. It is the non-coincidence of points of view that creates the space of tension in which a new meaning can be born. Colliding, interfering with each other, the linguistic worlds of the interlocutors generate a semantic surplus, grow with unexpected conceptual couplings and differences. Communication, thus, turns out to be not a simple transmission of available messages, but a productive event of meaning-genesis.
Imagine, for example, a dialogue between two scientists - a theoretical physicist and a biologist. Both of them operate with the concept of "energy," but obviously invest it with different content. For the physicist, energy is a fundamental quantity associated with work and heat transfer. For the biologist, it is a property of living systems that ensures their functioning and reproduction. The collision of these perspectives may initially cause misunderstanding, a feeling of rupture and inconsistency of meanings.
But it is in this rupture that the possibility of enrichment and transformation of the initial concepts lies. Trying to translate the concept of "energy" from the physical language into the biological one and vice versa, our scientists unwittingly expand the horizon of its meanings. They discover unexpected parallels and consonances between distant subject areas, reveal hidden dimensions and overtones of familiar terms. Thus, in the gap between disciplinary vocabularies, in the effort to create a common semantic territory, the prerequisites for a new, deeper understanding of the phenomenon of energy are born.
However, such productivity of communication is not guaranteed. For the gap of misunderstanding to become a source of semantic increment, the interlocutors must perform a special work - the work of co-attunement.
co-attunement is a collective effort aimed at building a common conceptual space through a series of mutual adjustments and clarifications. It is not a one-time act, but a process unfolding in time, during which the participants in the dialogue gradually "adjust" their languages and worldviews, grope for points of their productive intersection.
A necessary condition for co-attunement is the ability to direct and concentrate the necessary effort - the energy of self-actualization that constitutes our very mode of being. By engaging in dialogue, we must be ready to mobilize this effort, to invest it in building semantic bridges, in clearing the space of play and exchange of differences.
This readiness requires a certain courage - the courage to put one's conceptual self-identity at stake, to risk established schemes in view of the unpredictability of the communicative event. For co-attunement is not just a clarification of vocabularies, but a potentially transformative process, fraught with the loss of familiar supports of thought and self-understanding.
In terms of our ontology, co-attunement can be described as a dance of the positions of Guest and Host. To be a Guest means to enter the other's linguistic world, to try on an unfamiliar system of differences and categories, to be ready for a restructuring of one's own conceptual framework. To be a Host means to invite the Other into one's semantic space, to make it open to questions and alternative articulations, to give a place to otherness in one's discourse.
Let us return to our example with the dialogue between the physicist and the biologist. At certain moments, the physicist takes the position of Guest - trying to understand how the concept of energy works in the biological universe, what specific meanings and functions it acquires there. At other moments, he acts as a welcoming Host - explaining to the interlocutor the theoretical-physical implications of this concept, without insisting on their obligatoriness and exhaustive character. In turn, the biologist makes a reciprocal movement - being now an inquisitive Guest in the world of physics, now an inviting Host, ready to let a new visitor into his conceptual home. It is in the dance of these reversible positions, in the process of mutual movement toward each other, that the event of communicative co-attunement takes place.
Thus, the unfolding of dialogue appears as a series of oscillations between the poles of hospitality and guesting, between the effort to understand the other's language and the readiness to share one's own. In this reciprocal movement toward the unpredictable semantic event, a special communicative space is born - a space of play of differences, a region of co-possibility of conceptual worlds.
At the same time, the dance of co-attunement is not just a procedure of mutual informing, but a transformative practice, fraught with the loss of initial self-evidences. By allowing the other's language to resonate within one's own, we thereby agree to the risk of dis-identification with ourselves. We open the boundaries of our symbolic universe to the invasion of otherness.
This readiness for self-transformation, however, has its existential price. It requires a certain courage - the courage to recognize the initial vulnerability and incompleteness of one's position, to appear before the Other in one's fragility and non-self-sufficiency. Only by risking the loss of symbolic guarantees, only by sacrificing self-identity for the sake of the unpredictable outcome of the encounter, do we gain the chance to touch the truth of the communicative event.
In this sense, the dance of co-attunement is a kind of existential challenge, a test of the strength of our thought and value systems. It presupposes a readiness for self-giving, for investing one's existential effort in building a common semantic space. And only by accepting this challenge, only by entering the communicative game without guarantees of ultimate success, do we realize our vocation as co-creators of being, actualize our inherent capacity for meaning-generation.
Ultimately, such an understanding of communication calls into question the very idea of an enclosed subjectivity, a self-identical ego opposed to the external world. If language and thought are from the very beginning involved in the dynamics of difference, if meaning is born only in the gap between perspectives - then any claim to final autonomy and sovereignty turns out to be illusory.
We are always already captured by the play of signifiers, always already involved in the symbolic exchange that precedes any fixed subject-object opposition. Our very I is nothing more than a derivative of this exchange, its crisscrossing and elusive effect. And the awareness of this circumstance is the first step towards overcoming the phantasm of the self-identical subject.
To take communication seriously means to assert the primacy of relation, difference, gap in relation to any substance and self-identity. And that means being ready to put one's own I at stake, dissolving it in the play of mutual reflections and projections. To be ready, again and again, to set out for the unknown lands of the other's language, risking not returning to one's former self.
Ultimately, the dance of co-attunement, the dance of Guest and Host, is not just one of the techniques or practices of communication. It is the very mode of existential self-realization in the conditions of the radical relationality of being. A mode that asserts the primacy of the event over substance, of difference over identity, of openness over closure.
And perhaps only by cultivating such an ethos of communication, only by immersing ourselves again and again in the element of exchange of signifiers, can we grasp the elusive rhythm of togetherness, grope for the timid sprouts of commonality on the other side of one's own and the other's. That fragile commonality which does not abolish differences, but gives them a space of play. Does not synthesize, but juxtaposes, holds in mobile unity. Commonality as dance.